Posing!!! I can do that, said no child ever. -Murfreesboro Family Photography-

Photographing children is no easy feat, trust me I know.  I started out photographing my child and friends children, I didn't take a shot unless they were posed and smiling because that is what I thought was right and it's not totally wrong, but if you want the kids to have fun getting their photos taken then that is not the path to take.  

I am going to touch base on the ages I photograph the most and that is 1-7 or 8.  First things first, you MUST gain that child(s) trust.  You will not capture the true spirit of a child unless they trust you.  Imagine for a second yourself going to get your photos taken, lets even break this down to a boudoir session, something even more uncomfortable than normal, never met your photographer and you show up to have your clothing brought down to quite a bit less than what you are use to, you then get into position, maybe having not created a relationship with your photographer and then a camera is shoved in your face.  This is kind of what a kid feels like.  I never limit my sessions to just 1 hour unless I know the kid and have worked with them before.  Kids need time to warm up to someone they don't know, kids DO NOT do well under pressure and so rushing them because you have a time limit is not going to fly, you will not be successful in photographing younger children.

                                                                                        HOW TO BUILD TRUST:

For starters you introduce yourself to mom and dad, right?!  Why not do they same to the kids.  Get down to their level so you are less intimidating, ask them some things they like to do.  Ask them about their day, let them know something about yourself ( I have a little boy who is the exact same age as you, I bet you both like the same cartoons).  What is your favorite ice cream?  "Chocolate"  ooo mine too with rainbow spinkles on top.  All this is really great to get started before ever picking up the camera.  I have found that little girls are really great at sitting down and talking where little boys really want to run and play and get dirty, you really need to understand how to hone in on each child as they are all different, especially siblings.  When the kid(s) has made their way over to you and a way from mom and dad that is when you know they are comfortable with you.  This is all really great with 3 and up.  

2 AND UNDER

For this age you really have to go with the flow, you have to be really gentle with your introduction, this age is less talk and a little more action.  Bubbles, balloons, lovies, tickles.  They don't quite understand the power of conversation and their attention span is extremely low. 

                                                                                       GETTING THAT SHOT!!!

Now this requires quite a bit of ninja skills and lots of running and playing.  I really try hard to not get shutter happy, however sometimes it's required.  The point of having portraits done is to remember how your kids are at that specific time in their life, so if that means their hair is wild and crazy, scrapes on the knees, they loved to be silly, or snuggle on their lovey, then that is the photo that should be captured.  Also remember that kids need a break from time to time so if one minute you are having fun and playing and the next they are done, give them a break and find something NEW and EXCITING for them to do.  Another question that always comes up from time to time is how do you get that genuine smile??  Well I know how I do it and it works well for me so give it a go and see if it works for you.  I tend to ask quite a bit of questions, and not just any questions, you have to really remove your age from the equation and turn yourself into whatever age the kid(s) is that you are photographing.  Does mommy feed you worms instead of cereal??  Do you think your beautiful dress will fit me??  Why not am I too small for it??  and so on, get creative, they will love it. 

RULES FOR PARENTS

Now parents really have a hard time throwing the parent card out the window (I know I do).  You know what makes getting photos even harder for a kid?  When mom and dad are correcting them to do what the photographer says.  This can really close a kid down and make them absolutely uninterested in having photos done at all.  Now this is not saying that this is mom and dads fault, because it's not.  They are just being mom and dad, it's what they know how to do, so as a photographer of children you need to let the parent know what is okay and how you work with kids.  Now hitting mom and dad and overall negative behavior in that way, I do not condone, that is not okay, but this is when as a photographer you try something new, separate the child and mommy or daddy and just do portraits of them for a bit and revisit that set up later.

SO WITH THAT BEING SAID, REMEMBER KIDS ARE KIDS AND SAME GOES WHEN THEY ARE BEING PHOTOGRAPHED.  I HOPE THIS WAS A VERY HELPFUL READ. I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR YOUR FEEDBACK AND ANY QUESTIONS YOU MAY HAVE.

The Digital Age -Murfreesboro Family photography-

Everything is so much easier now in the digital age.  Photography being one of those things on the top of the list.  I started out as a shoot and burner (hangs head in shame), and if you are a photographer you know exactly what that is.  I am not proud of it, but we all start somewhere.  Could you imagine before computers, if your photographer handed you your film and said have a great day?  We as photographers should be proud to have our images printed and if we are handing them over to our clients just on a disc then I feel we have done a disservice to them.  Life gets busy and we easily forget to do something as simple as print photos and before you know it, it's next year and you are starting the process over again.    

Technology is forever changing, just 20 years ago you saw VHS everywhere, then it was CD/DVD, now we are transitioning to flashdrives.  All that in just 20 years, if you wait to have your images printed from a disc just imagine what will happen in 10 years from now, will it be a challenge just to get those memories.  

You have worked so hard to learn photography, shooting until your arm falls off just to get it perfect in camera, go home and pull it up on your computer, edit for hours, hand a disc to your client and all that work you have done has a high chance of never getting displayed, serioulsy what was the point, all your hard work, for nothing.

As for your client, what a shame that their family photos sit on a disc.  The walls in your home are meant to display art and to me that is your family.  You have worked so hard to have your family, take care of your family, love your family, grow your family, all of that hard work should be displayed in your home.  Be proud and show your family off, don't just hire a photographer because they are going to give you a disc, pay the extra and let them create a gallery in your home for you, they are the expert on products that will help archive your photos for your family in the future, they have access to the best products available out there that you cannot get, they know visually what looks good (they are a photographer after all), and they know what products their images will looks best on.  

P.S. Your photographer MAY keep your images forever, but there are no guarantees

Camera invades the docs office -Murfreesboro Family Photography-

Today we started our day arguing with big brother, then off to the post office, then to grab mommies addiction (Starbucks) and then play date with our friends.  We arrived early for our play date and so a little practice in the drivers seat for Kason was just the ticket to keep him occupied.  He was all smiles and we were the only car in the parking lot with the headlights on and windshield wipers going (it was not raining in case you were wondering).  Our friends arrived and we headed inside for a day of fun, or was it???  Kason sat on my lap the whole time, I felt so bad that our friends had come all this way to visit and I didn't want to leave early so we held out as long as we could, poor little guy was so exhausted, I didn't even get out of the parking lot and he was sleeping.   

Below are a few pathetic images of the little man at the docs.

All snuggled up and tuned into the cartoons on tv

Mouth wide open due to congestion, poor little boogy boogy.  (yep that's what I call him)

Oh yeah and his awesome sunglasses and the big bear yawn that took me a few times to get.

and of course the $45 visit to the pharmacy after the hour visit to see the doc.  Outcome of it all, slight ear infection, cold, and wheezing.  Has anyones kid had RSV and their lungs just don't seem to be as strong after having it??  

And so there you have it, the kids are not safe from the camera no matter where they are.  Sleeping, doctors, potty, tub, NOWHERE!!  The life of a photographers child. They will appreciate it later. 

Enough about me!!! -Murfreesboro Family Photography-

Yes, I want to know about me readers, what do you want to hear about??  It can be any topic, photography, kid, family related.  Is there something you are curious about and would love some input on.  Obviously this is something that could totally be backed by facts or simply my opinion on the matter.   

Are you a photographer and want to know certain techniques I have done and want to know how to accomplish it as well?

Are you a hobbyest and want to know the next step to build your portfolio?

Are you a mom and want to know how to get your kiddos to arise to the occasion for a photo shoot?

A mom trying to get the hubby in on getting portraits done? 

I am an open book and now open ears. 

Fall has arrived in Murfreesboro TN

Fall is my all time favorite season as I am sure it is for a lot of people.  It has finally arrived and I had to go out and take full advantage of it's beauty especially today because it was fairly warm outside.  The boys had tons of fun playing in the leaves, can't wait to get out there again this weekend to photograph a few more families.  

WARNING!!!!  

Apply sunglasses now if you are sensitive to a lot of colors and enjoy!!! 

Activities for kids in Murfreesboro TN

I am always in search of places to take my kids, whether it be indoors, outdoors, festivals, free, or a few dollars.  We always buy a membership to the Discovery Center here in Murfreesboro TN.  It is especially nice during the winter months and also on very hot days in the summer.  They are constantly changing the exhibits to keep it fresh and interesting for the kids.  You can have a 1 year membership for a measly $75 or $6 per person, under 2 are free.  We like to start our day with an educational class in the morning usually held on Monday and Tuesday at 9:00 before the center opens.  This class offers dancing, counting, reading, months, seasons.  Each week the class has a different theme and it is incorporated all the way to the snack.  Here are a few images from our visit to the Discovery Center here in Murfreesboro TN.  Hope you enjoy!! 

Preparing your child for portraits, is there such a thing? -Murfreesboro family photography-

As a parent you are unfamiliar with how to "prepare" your child(ren) to get their portraits done.  You know how to be a parent to them and so when having their photos done it's no different, or is it??  I am a firm believer in letting all the rules go out the window when it comes portrait time.  I guarantee speaking as a parent you are going to be much happier with the results if you let you kid(s) be Kid(s), let them run, play, and be silly and you in turn will enjoy the experience even more.  I think the only thing you can do to prepare your kids for portraits is feed them, choose a time that is not nap time, and be sure they are not sick, the rest is left up to your child and the photographer.  These portraits are of my boys, I am sure by now they are immune to the camera, but I still have to work for the results.  How did I prepare my boys for this?  Well I  took my own advice and said lets go to the park and play, they threw leaves at me, jumped to try and reach the sky, played in the gravel, and so on.  The photographer wants a genuine smile just as much as you do, now maybe you want those shots where your kids are posed and looking so sweet and that is fine, but that goes into choosing your photographer. 

 How to choose a photographer that fits your family? 

My friend asked me why do you value your photographer over another?  I answered this with a simple, I love how clean the images are, the way she captures my family and all families, I like how down to earth she is and how helpful she is.  Now I am sure there are other photographers out there that offer this as well, but why continue to search if I already have what I like?  I guess that is how you know if your photographer is right for you.  

How did you choose your pediatrician or Family doctor?  Why should choosing your photographer be any different?  

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Halloween November 1st 2013?! -Murfreesboro Family Photography-

Here in TN, Halloween was a day late, however the kids didn't know any different.  So glad Mimi and Pa were here to visit, they were able to see the kids all dressed up in their costumes and Mimi went door to door with us, thankfully because we needed all the help we could get.  We started off with our little one a tad bit intimidated by all the costumes, a sweet boy even took his mask off and let Kason go ahead of him.  Kason was a hot mess from the start, now just imagine for a second a 2 year old with a bucket filling by the minute and refusing to let us carry it.  Let's just say we probably could have followed the trail of spilt candy to find our way back to the car.  There was even one time when the whole bucket spilled and a few nice girls stopped to help us pick them up and wished us a Happy Halloween, it's a rarity that you see young kids help out, so that was wonderful.  I hope everyone had an awesome Halloween, whether it be October 31st or November 1st.