As a wife I try so hard to meet the expectations of my mother-in-law. My husband is constantly saying how his moms is better. It doesn't matter what it is, folding laundry, baking cookies, washing the floors, his mom always does it better. I suppose the only way for everything to be the "right way" is to be his mom. He is going to have to learn how to deal with "mediocre". One day I was making my boys pb&j for lunch and my husband quickly responds with "you are making that wrong". REALLY!? how in the world can you mess up a pb&J? Apparently spreading peanut butter on one slice and jelly on the other is incorrect, who knew. A few days passed or months, who knows, but the roles were reversed, my husband now making the sandwiches. He spreads on the peanut butter and then on the same piece of bread, right on top of the peanut butter he applies the jelly. My son notices the difference and quickly responds, you are making that wrong!!!! This really got me thinking, there is no reason for me to do everything as well as my mother-in-law because one day my way will be the best.